PinnedInThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Dec 11, 2025This Is Why Your Relationship Feels Like WorkMy wife and I were recently reflecting on how our relationship never feels like work. Even though it seems like we do a lot of the same…A response icon7A response icon7
InThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Oct 13, 2025“Loving Yourself First” Might Be EasierI found outsourcing my self-worth to be pretty hit and miss.A response icon1A response icon1
InThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Jun 24, 2025A Short Man’s Take on the 80/20 RuleI ranked low on (men’s perceived) dating criteria. So what about in real life?A response icon14A response icon14
InThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Mar 12, 2025What Neopatriarchy Would Need To AddressAre we going to flat-out deny the reasons we rebelled against traditional gender roles?A response icon8A response icon8
InThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Nov 29, 2024What a “Good” Breakup Can Sound and Feel LikeNot all breakups are uglyA response icon1A response icon1
InThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Jan 25, 2024What is a Great Relationship Like?Here’s what comes to mind.
InThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Jun 19, 2023Your Love is Not a Bargaining ChipYour love is not a bargaining chip.A response icon1A response icon1
InThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Jun 5, 2023Stop Trying to Be a Cover BandRelationships require innovation, originality, and co-creation
InThe Craft Of Intimate CoupledombyKen Blackman·Dec 21, 2022The Energy Accounting of Intimate RelationshipHere’s what makes a long-term relationship “worth it.”A response icon1A response icon1
